🗽 FEB 25, 2015: Mens Health > Sexy-anomics! She Doesn’t Feel Sexy Anymore.

BY CARRIE BORZILLO
PUBLISHED: FEB 25, 2015
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Often times, when a woman gains weight or just had a baby, she doesn’t feel sexy. “Women absolutely need to be feeling really good about themselves in their head,” says Ghose. “That’s directly connected to them feeling sexy and sexual.”

Preventative Measures: “Addressing her weight gain is not a good idea,” says Ghose. “It’s more important to be supportive and more attentive to her needs in general, and encouraging her to talk about stuff. If weight is the issue, try to lead by example by eating healthy and keeping up your personal fitness routine.”

How To Turn It Around: “It’s key that you don’t point the finger,” says Ghose. “Instead, come at it from your needs. You can say, ‘I would really like to have more connection with you. What can I do to make this better?’ If you come at it from your needs not being met instead of what she’s not doing, she’s more likely to hear you and not feel defensive.”
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